If you’re a new, more recent reader then I have to tell you I do not like Valentine’s day – as I discussed last year here. Over here it has morphed into something not only lovers celebrate, but also something children are expected to take part in at school. Last night we decorated shoe boxes that will hold all the candies they exchange in class today. Uuurgh I just think it is such a marketing con. MM and I have never exchanged cards in the twenty something years we’ve been together. He tells me it’s Valentine’s Day every day in our house and I tend to agree. If you need to set aside a day of the year to appreciate your loved one then there is something wrong.
Okay rant over. I have tried to embrace it in my outfit for today – choosing the J.Crew heartbreaker jumper – and even my jewelry consists of Tiffany’s and pearls so I really am trying to get into the spirit of it!
Shoes – Tory Burch navy Eddie flats // Trousers – Zara tweed harems // Jumper – J.Crew heartbreaker jumper // Jacket – Gap denim (old – similar here) // Pearl bracelets – random from Target // Silver bracelets – Tiffany & Co
I couldn’t help but notice how Spring like it felt this morning – shoots rising from the ground and blue skies above me. Love it!
How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day?
I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned before but MM and I are currently watching the entire collection of The West Wing. I bought it for him a couple of years ago and it’s only now we’ve had the courage to start watching it all again. I am flabbergasted how so many issues that Aaron Sorkin wrote about are still relevant today. We watched an episode on gun control last night and I had to keep reminding myself that The West Wing is fictional – it was uncanny.
I’m about to head out for a tacos and margarita lunch with MM. I can’t wait. While I do wait though, we just had a power cut here – it must be all the rain making trees keel over in the soft ground. So the dogs and I passed the time with a little photo shoot. Tennyson couldn’t resist getting in the action – he’s a bit of a diva, Rosie stayed out of it – she’s not too proud to admit her heydays are over – so she directed off camera.
I’m layered up today as it is cold but keeps threatening to warm up – I’m ready for it – come on sunshine stop hiding away! I’m wearing one of my first ever AllSaints jumpers – so old I can’t remember the name – over a Forever 21 color block long sleeve t-shirt. The jeans are H&M coated jeggings and the boots are the AllSaints Bonny Cuban. Oh and the scarf is H&M from last year – I love the lips. I think lips are almost better than hearts for Valentine’s Day – so I might drag it out on the 14th again – though I do still despise Valentine’s Day!
Wait for me!!
Come on pat my head!
Aaaaah thank you:)
We’re looking good!
There are several style icons around the globe who inspire me, but the woman who makes me weak at the knees with her effortless chic and je ne sais quoi is Emmanuelle Alt. Wikipedia says she was born May 18th 1967 which is interesting not only because my daughter’s birthday is May 18th but also because she’s heading for her 46th birthday this year! She looks phenomenal at 46!
Her uniform is pretty standard fare – if you ignore the fact that it is compiled of designer pieces – you’ll recognize plenty of Isabel Marant when you look at photos. You’ll often see her in a blazer, t-shirt, skinnies or harem trousers with pointy pumps or ankle boots. Regardless of what she wears – it somehow always looks amazing and also looks like she hasn’t given her wardrobe that day a second thought. She has a formula and she sticks by it. If you saw a headless shot of her you’d be able to tell who it is instantly.
I think blogging is starting to make me over think what I wear, leading to some dubious decisions and combinations. It’s time to pare back and simplify. So here is my attempt at jeans, t-shirt and a blazer. I actually feel really comfortable like this and it’s one of MM’s favorite looks on me. InStyle magazine also dedicate a page this month to the blazer and jeans look – so I must be on to something.
The blazer is Zara from last summer – it’s hard to see the detail but it doesn’t have lapels – I love it – it has great strong shoulders! The t-shirt was a tenner from Target and is probably suitable for Valentine’s Day and the earrings were cheap as chips from Forever 21🙂 The jeans are Gap grey jeggings and the Carlsen boots were $40 from Steve Madden about three years ago, and I think look very Marant. Oh the irony, given I didn’t choose the only Isabel Marant I own – my Dicker boots.
On my wrist I decided to add a bit of embellishment to my standard Elsa Peretti open heart bracelet.
So go on then – who is your style icon?
All I can think about right now are the 40 or so Valentine candies that I have to prepare for the kids to take to school tomorrow. I have bought the ones that have the little cards with them so all I have to do is write each child’s name on them, but still it is a chore hanging over my head. I have to say I hate Valentine’s Day. Here in the U.S. it seems that it is much more than a day for lovers, it is a day to send everyone and anyone a piece of candy, a card, or some other gift of appreciation. MM and I have never celebrated Valentine’s Day, we see it as a horribly commercial day and another ploy by companies to get you to part with your money. I can’t bear the idea of sitting in a restaurant trying to be romantic on a Tuesday night with every other couple in Atlanta. Firstly, if you ask me, love should be celebrated everyday and shouldn’t require one day a year to be devoted to it. It just perpetuates the stereotype of men running around trying to please their wives/girlfriends, and fearing that if they don’t spend a fortune on red roses they will be in ‘the dog house’ for the rest of the year. Secondly, February 14th is a day that is dedicated to Saint Valentine by the Catholic Church – not a day for us all to go out and buy heart shaped candy. Call me miserable by all means – but see how you feel when you are told that you must send in a gift for every child in your children’s class.
Maybe I am scarred as Valentine’s Day just brings back memories of the pressure I endured as teenager, desperately hoping I’d receive a Valentine’s card. I used to hate getting the bus home on Valentine’s Day as there would always be a few smug girls ‘struggling’ and giggling, carrying one of the huge oversize cards, bought by some lovesick boyfriend off Bury Market. I never got one. I remember one year actually having a ‘boyfriend’ on Valentine’s Day. He bought me a card and then wrote an inflated price on the back of it to suggest the more he spent the more he cared…I know you might be reading this, and won’t name names, but don’t think I didn’t figure out your cunning plan! Anyway, my point is that there is so much pressure in the years to come regarding Valentine’s Day, why introduce it for kindergartners? They have plenty time to be concerned with it – please let’s leave it to the amateur lovers out there that feel they need to prove something to someone…
Okay now that is off my chest let’s talk about the Grammys last night. My absolute favorite performance was Bruno Mars – what a great show – I was grinning from ear to ear watching him move. Sir Paul McCartney was pretty dreadful in my opinion – come on Paul you don’t even need to do this anymore surely? Overall I think they handled Whitney’s death pretty well – I thought L.L. Cool J. hit the tone perfectly at the start of the evening as he honored her and proceeded to remind everyone they were there to celebrate. Congratulations to Adele on taking home all six Grammys that she was nominated for. I haven’t seen her sing yet though as I could barely keep my eyes open after Sir Paul’s snooze inducing performance. One last rant though, why oh why is Chris Brown still getting t.v. air time?
It’s another frigid day here and knowing I’m going to be sitting in a heated office most of the day makes it more difficult to decide what to wear. Rather than basing my choices on the temperatures, I opted to try and provide some cheer for everyone with a bit of color. I love the Boden colourblock tunics, they are so comfortable and easy to wear and today I have paired the violet one with Boden black leggings and my favorite Frye Jane Tall boots – all topped off with my black Patagonia Downtown Loft jacket which is so warm and yet doesn’t necessarily look like I should be out climbing a rock face. A good thing really as I won’t be going near any today.